List the people you admire and look to for advice…
Every one of us needs a guiding voice.
Whether it’s to find strength in hard times or clarity when life gets messy, the people we look up to shape how we think, act, and grow.
For me, there are four voices I return to time and time again. Different in their methods, united in their impact: Jesus, my dad, Jordan Peterson, and Ed Mylett.
Here’s what they’ve taught me—and why they matter so much to me.
1. Jesus – The Standard of Grace, Strength, and Truth
It starts with the one who set the ultimate example.
Jesus isn’t just a historical figure or religious symbol to me—He’s the embodiment of servant leadership, unwavering conviction, and unconditional love.
What I’ve learned:
Grace > Judgment: Jesus taught us to lead with compassion, not condemnation. Purpose > Popularity: He stayed on mission, even when misunderstood or hated. Faith through pain: His strength came through surrender, not control.
Whenever I feel lost, I come back to His words. Simple. Clear. Eternal.
“He who wants to be great among you must be your servant.” – Matthew 20:26
2. My Dad – Quiet Wisdom, Loud Example
If Jesus shaped my spirit, my dad shaped my work ethic.
He’s the man who never needed the spotlight—because his actions always spoke louder than words.
He taught me what it means to show up when it counts, even when no one’s watching. To be consistent. Honest. Responsible.
What I’ve learned:
Real leaders don’t talk about it—they live it. Character is built in the boring days, not the big ones. Family always comes before ego.
There’s a strength in his simplicity that I try to live up to every day.
3. Jordan Peterson – Clarity in a Confused World
Dr. Jordan Peterson is someone I turn to when the world feels chaotic—and I need logic to cut through the noise.
His blend of psychology, philosophy, and brutal honesty helps me face the uncomfortable truths we’d often rather avoid.
What I’ve learned:
Clean your room before you criticize the world. Stand up straight with your shoulders back—posture is power. Speak the truth, or at least don’t lie.
He reminds me that order starts from within—and that meaning comes from responsibility, not comfort.
4. Ed Mylett – Fire, Focus, and Faith
Ed brings the fire.
If Peterson helps you think, Mylett makes you move.
His energy is electric—but it’s powered by a deep faith and relentless discipline. He bridges mindset and mission like no one else.
What I’ve learned:
You don’t get what you want. You get what you’re obsessed with. Confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself. One more rep. One more call. One more day of giving it all you’ve got.
He reminds me that personal growth is spiritual work—and that high standards are an act of love.
Final Thoughts
These four men couldn’t be more different in style.
But they share one common thread: they live what they teach.
In a world full of noise, they’ve helped me tune in to what really matters—faith, family, discipline, purpose.
If you’re searching for mentors, start with the ones who speak to both your head and your heart.
Because the people we admire shape who we become.
Who do you admire—and why? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
