Molly Doesn’t Need to Prove Anything

Share a photo of your pet and tell us one thing that makes them uniquely them. My dog Molly is a golden retriever/Maremma mix, and she might be the most mellow creature I’ve ever met. Not lazy — mellow. There’s a difference. She’s got energy when it counts. But her default setting is calm, andContinue reading “Molly Doesn’t Need to Prove Anything”

The Man Who Passed Me at Mile 14 (And What He Said Before He Disappeared)

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received? Mile fourteen is where the wheels usually come off for me. Not because of my lungs — my lungs are fine. It’s my shins. Old stress fracture territory. Every long run past the two-hour mark, some part of my brain starts running a different race: theContinue reading “The Man Who Passed Me at Mile 14 (And What He Said Before He Disappeared)”

Faith Is Taking the First Step

What’s a quote that perfectly describes your outlook on life? “Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” — Martin Luther King Jr. I’ve probably read a hundred quotes about faith. Most of them slide right off me. This one didn’t, and it took me a while to figureContinue reading “Faith Is Taking the First Step”

11 Places I Can’t Rank (But Can’t Stop Thinking About)

What are your top 10 travel destinations? I sat down to write “my top 10 travel destinations” and got exactly as far as you’d expect: eleven places, zero willingness to cut one. So here’s the honest version. Not ranked. Not a listicle promising you “hidden gems.” Just the places that rearranged something in me, inContinue reading “11 Places I Can’t Rank (But Can’t Stop Thinking About)”

Does Everything Happen for a Reason? Yes and No.

Do you think everything happens for a reason? I used to hate this question. Mostly because I hated the answer people gave me — that soft, well-meaning “everything happens for a reason” they’d offer up like it explained anything. It doesn’t. Not on its own. So here’s my actual answer, the one that took meContinue reading “Does Everything Happen for a Reason? Yes and No.”

Why My Apartment Looks Almost Empty (On Purpose)

What’s your home decoration style? People walk into my place and their first reaction is usually the same: “Wait, did you just move in?” Nope. I’ve lived here a while. This is just how I like it. Less Stuff, More Room to Think I didn’t set out to become a minimalist. It happened more likeContinue reading “Why My Apartment Looks Almost Empty (On Purpose)”

I Don’t Know What I Don’t Know (And I’ve Made Peace With That)

Are you a lifelong learner? Ask me if I’m a lifelong learner and I won’t hesitate. Yes. Obviously. Next question. But here’s what actually convinced me, and it wasn’t a book or a podcast or some tidy realization I had on a run. It was noticing how often I’m wrong about things I was sureContinue reading “I Don’t Know What I Don’t Know (And I’ve Made Peace With That)”

The App That’s Eating My Screen Time (And Why I Refuse to Delete It)

What app eats up most of your screen time — and do you even feel bad about it? My phone sent me the weekly screen time report Sunday night, the one with the little pie chart that’s supposed to make you feel bad about yourself. I braced for the usual verdict: Instagram, probably, or someContinue reading “The App That’s Eating My Screen Time (And Why I Refuse to Delete It)”

If I Could Erase One Trend From History, It’s This One

If you could erase one trend from history, what would it be? Somebody asked me that question at a dinner last month. “If you could erase one trend from history, what would it be?” People usually go for the easy answers. Fast fashion. Reality TV. Whatever meme is annoying them that week. I sat withContinue reading “If I Could Erase One Trend From History, It’s This One”

The One Piece of Old Tech I Actually Miss

Which outdated technology do you miss the most, and why? Everybody’s got a nostalgia answer ready to go. Flip phones. CD binders in the backseat. Dial-up internet, if you’re feeling especially masochistic. Mine’s a film camera. Not because it took better pictures. My iPhone’s camera destroys anything my old point-and-shoot could do, technically speaking. Sharper,Continue reading “The One Piece of Old Tech I Actually Miss”

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